The Amazing “Hook And Shut-up” Seduction Technique
by Derek Vitalio
There’s an amazing little trick I use ALL the
time. And what’s so great about it is that it will literally compel a woman to
talk with you no matter how hot she is or how uninterested she may be
initially.
Human beings are fundamentally curious animals. We are biologically wired to
want to know. Ever get lured into one of those cheesy crime investigation
shows on TV to find out who done it and how… only to curse yourself 60 minutes
later that you wish you had done something more useful with your time?
Or ever notice how much more exciting it is to open a gift wrapped present and
seeing what’s inside rather than just having something plainly handed to you?
Curiosity is a “click whirr”, knee-jerk response that all human beings
reliably and consistently respond to. And you can use curiosity to literally
force women to respond enthusiastically to your advances with “click whirr”
reliability.
To illustrate, when you first approach a woman you might say to her, “Excuse
me… I don’t know if anyone has ever told you this before, but I noticed
something really interesting about you.” This is called the “Hook”.
I can guarantee that 99 out of 100 women will stop
dead in their tracks and ask what it is that you noticed. You have used her
own curiosity to literally force her to stop and respond with curiosity… you
have hooked her like a fish to your line and she won’t be able let go!
The second thing you must do, and which so many men get wrong, is that after
you throw her the Hook, you must SHUT UP. Yes, shut up! Throw the hook and
shut up and WAIT for her to respond.
For example:
“Excuse me… I don’t know if anyone has ever
told you this before, but I noticed something really interesting about
you.” SHUT UP AND WAIT for her response.
This may seem like an obvious thing to do, but a lot of guys tend to
throw their hook and immediately give the answer without giving their
worm time to wiggle and squirm. For example, they’ll ruin the power of
the hook and say instead, “I noticed something really interesting about
you… it’s those boots you’re wearing… I use to have a girlfriend who
wore those same boots!”
In this example, the hook is there but the girl never had the chance to
get her curiosity going!
Here are some more examples of the Hook and Shut-up Technique.
Her: “So what do you do?”
You: “You’ll never believe it if I told you.” This gets her curiosity
flaming! Now SHUT UP, dead silence!!
Her: “WHAT?”
You: “Well, can you guess? ;)” Now you’re really digging it in like a
knife!
Her: “So what do you do?”
You: “I practice hypnotism.” Shut up, and wait for her to respond.
She’ll literally be sucked in against her will.
Another variation of the Hook and Shut-up Technique is to cast your hook
and then begin talking about something entirely else. This way, as you
talk to her, she’ll have that curiosity gnawing at the back of her mind
and she won’t leave you until it’s been scratched! Here’s an example.
Her: “So what do you do?”
You: “Oh, what I do is really interesting… which reminds me of what you
said earlier about liking exciting, adventuresome people and what
happened to me when I was climbing Mt Fuji in Japan last year…”
You can even TWIST a hook deeper and deeper in order to touch her…
except that SHE asked for it out of curiosity and you’re just showing
her what SHE asked for.
For example, grab her hand without asking and say to her, “Hmmm… that’s
really interesting.” That’s the first hook. Be sure to shut-up and let
her respond.
Her: “What is it?”
You: “The lines in your hands… (laugh) man, I don’t believe this.”
You’re twisting that hook even deeper!
Her: “What??”
You: “Well I can tell a lot of interesting things about you by looking
at your palm… and I’m not sure if I should tell you this.” Twist that
hook even deeper!
Her: “You read palms? What do they say?”
Proceed to trace the lines in her palms with your finger, telling her
that the lines show you that deep down she’s a very sexual person… that
she has a side she keeps hidden from everyone else… and that it’s your
and her little secret. Obviously, you don’t need to know how to read her
palm to pull this off, just make up whatever you want!
To become a truly good in leading women into conversations with you
where THEY are eager to participate, write down 15 new hooks each day
for 10 days straight. Eventually you’ll come to the point where you’re
naturally and automatically generating powerful hooks in conversations
with beautiful women.
Derek Vitalio learned hypnosis from a female neuro linguistic
programmer. In his research and application of mind technologies, he
discovered a unique way for men to become attractive to the opposite
sex, using hypnotic methodologies. Interviewed by A&E television, his
system has already helped thousands with their love lives. He now
travels the world helping people access the power of their minds.
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