When you're
interacting with women it's important to identify, and use, her
attraction energy as your energy to increase her interest in you.
When you see a woman who you think is absolutely STUNNING, STRIKING,
what do you FEEL?
And even when you hear the most incredible uplifting song on the radio
or on your cd player, what do you FEEL? When you leave the theatre after
seeing a movie that you felt was AWESOME, what do you FEEL?
You feel TOTALLY ALIVE!
Have you ever thought about what makes you FEEL the way you do when you
are exposed to these different things, whether it’s encountering a
gorgeous stunning woman, or any other stimulus that makes you feel
CHARGED?
What’s happening is that synapses in your brain are firing off chemicals
that make you feel infinite varieties of “pleasure charges” and
excitement charges.
By making your primal brain feel that something IMPORTANT is happening,
you actually FEEL alive, all your senses are suddenly heightened to take
in whatever is going on so that you can take appropriate action.
It’s all about our brain’s hardwiring for SURVIVAL a long time ago.
Listen, back in the day about a million years ago, life was probably
pretty INSANE, by our standards. It was tough, but it was probably also
EXCITING as heck. Survival, hunting, mating, ritual dance. Lots of
EMOTIONALLY COOL stuff going on. Lots of things that NATURALLY triggered
the excitement chemicals to be released in the brain so that we could
SURVIVE as a species.
What you have to understand is that even though our sense of logic has
enabled us to come a long way since then, we are still at odds with
logic and far more in LOVE with EMOTIONS!
Yup, those chemicals in our brain that make us feel ALIVE!
We do everything we can to get those chemicals firing. There are healthy
ways of doing it, like music, sex with the right partner(s), working
out, etc. Unfortunately, this desire for this CHEMICAL charge is so
strong that many folks give in to the appeal of drugs, because it gives
instant pleasure even though it also ends up creating massive pain and
ruins your life.
BUT WHAT IF YOU COULD BE A WOMAN’S “NATURAL” SOURCE OF AWESOME
CHEMICALS?
The answer is you CAN!
But you cannot do this if you cannot CHARGE YOURSELF UP. You have to
know how to CHARGE YOURSELF, NATURALLY, both internally in terms of your
thoughts and brainwaves and also externally in terms of your behaviours
and the way you dress and come across.
EVERYTHING about you must be SCREAMING with PRIMAL CHARGE, you must on
every behavioural non-verbal level be SCREAMING WITH PLEASURE if you
plan to have HER screaming with pleasure.
So how do you go about achieving this?
The FIRST thing you have to do is understand that this is a PROCESS and
that you have to be COMMITTED to making this HAPPEN.
You have to TAKE CHARGE of your own THOUGHTS and attitudes.
Would you walk into a gym and cancel your membership after ONE DAY if
you didn’t have Arnold’s biceps in one day?
You have to INTERNALLY BE HAPPY TO ACCEPT THE PROCESS, because THIS
ATTITUDE IN ITSELF is part of being SEXY.
You have to be in love with the process. And to be honest with you, the
process IS FUN! I mean think about it, you are interacting with women
who you are attracted to! You are now IN THE GAME!
Would you really rather be home on your game boy? You know something, I
don’t even own one of those thingies, and never have. I’m not knocking
it, but my point is once you play in the real world, you will find the
real world a lot more stimulating and exciting and fun.
You see, if you take on this attitude, and SIMULTANEOUSLY apply the
advice from my material in my book and services, you will
ACCELERATE your learning curve.
If you DON’T take on this attitude, you will be EMOTIONALLY DEPENDENT on
INSTANT success, and you will become internally desperate if it doesn’t
happen IMMEDIATELY and you will then be telegraphing to every woman you
approach that you NEED her approval. This creates the “emotional leach”
effect.
But if you are TOTALLY PREPARED TO ACCEPT THE PROCESS, then that IN
ITSELF will RADIATE to the woman you are speaking
with that you are NOT NEEDY.
And you know what?
You might fumble here and there, but you have to be a BUMP AND GRINDER
before you can be Mr. Finesse. Of course, it HELPS MASSIVELY if you are
being given EXPERT advice and coaching so that you DO get results as
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Hey look, I’m writing from Toronto, home of the Toronto Maple Leafs.
These dudes are known for being a bump and grind team and sweating it
out on the ice. Talent and finesse is awesome, but sometimes PURE DRIVE,
sheer force of WILL, and simply being willing to take the bumps and
bruises that are the price of aggressive play, is even MORE IMPORTANT
than talent, and this in itself fosters talent. The guy who does not go
down for the count before he is truly OUT will go farther than the guy
with awesome talent but wusses out when he doesn’t get his result
immediately. Before you can become Wayne Gretzky, you have to put in
your dues.
If you are in a club, for example, and you are new at the game and have
approach anxiety, don’t even worry right now about pulling off really
cool extractions out of the club etc, just APPROACH LIKE A MADMAN and
chat up the heck out of that club. And you know what? Although I don’t
recommend looking like a total weirdo with no social skills, I wouldn’t
give a damn about what other people thought I looked like, because right
now your goal is to get over APPROACHING so that you have no issues with
it.
BUMP AND GRIND your way through the throngs, and approach approach
approach. And give EACH approach your best shot, using everything you’re
learning from my materials.
If you don’t have the internal attitude of SCREAMING WITH ENERGY AND
VITALITY AND PLEASURE SOAKING ALL OVER YOU, how the heck are you going
to INSPIRE HER EMOTIONS? How are you going to UNLEASH THOSE PLEASURE
CHEMICALS in her brain?
Most people, and that includes women, are NOT exactly thrilled with
their lives, because it’s human nature to want MORE fun, more charge.
And to add to that, many people are in situations or jobs that aren’t
all that exciting, and so when a woman goes out on the town to have a
good time and get away from all the crapola of her life, she wants to
have A GOOD TIME, she wants to feel the CHARGE!!!!
But what do most guys do?
They get all LOGICAL and boring on her. They give her MORE CRAPOLA that
she gets all week, and here she is on the weekend wanting to FEEL GOOD
and get CHARGED!!
I honestly believe that no one on earth would drink or take drugs if
they could just get EASILY CHARGED in a healthier way.
You have to learn how to give off vibes of ENERGY as opposed to vibes of
LEACHING. When you playfully tease a girl, for example, you show that
you aren’t NEEDY for her energy vibes, and that you indeed have an
energy SURPLUS. So you see, you are actually a GIVER when you playfully
tease. And teasing is just the TIP of the iceberg. For example, when you
don’t understand how women feel like SLUTS if you don’t lead the show
properly, you don’t understand how you are making her feel HORRIBLE. On
the other hand, if you DO understand how to LEAD the situation so that
the woman doesn’t feel weird or slutty or “easy” then you are ALLOWING
HER TO EXPERIENCE THE JOY OF SEXUAL VIBE WITH YOU.
The TRICK though to all this is understanding the FINE DISTINCTIONS in
behaviours that make the difference between success and failure. For
example, if you act TOO AGGRESSIVE, you make a woman feel as if she is
CHEAP. If you act TOO SENSITIVE, i.e. buying her drinks in a
supplicative way, you make her feel like you are an inferior and thus an
emotional energy LEACH. And, for example, if you AVOID all contact with
a woman in the first few minutes of interacting with her, you will be
facing a huge awkwardness in trying to escalate later on, yet if you
become too touchy feely, you will come across as needy and creepy as
heck.
These fine distinctions are no different than the fine distinctions that
make the difference between an awesome song and a something wretched to
hear. Or the difference between a master comedian like Seinfeld or an
amateur who can only use infinite vulgar language.
These are CRITICAL distinctions that make all the difference in the
WORLD to your success. And you can now learn how to APPLY these
distinctions with women so that your vibe is SCREAMING OUT VIBES OF
PLEASURE. It’s all detailed, step-by-step, in my eBook, The Dating
Wizard: Secrets to Success with Women.
This book is the DNA for understanding the concepts and methods in my
advanced programs and services.
Download it now at: http://thedatingwizard.com/the_dating_wizard.htm
And if you would like to get the FULL PICTURE, to learn EXACTLY how to
go about approaching women to take things from that very first moment
all the way to the bedroom and beyond, and even where to find the RIGHT
kinds of women for YOU, as well as how to handle and even eradicate the
kind of ridiculous “tests” that even GOOD women tend to throw your way,
then I seriously suggest you sign up for my Live Bootcamp or Workshop
program where you will “work it” in the real world. These programs are
three days and three nights of MASSIVE learning and skill growth, where
we won’t stop until YOU have achieved YOUR goals.
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If you haven’t yet downloaded my eBook, The Dating Wizard: Secrets
to Success with Women, then do it IMMEDIATELY. This book is NOT like
other books, it’s about SOLVING THE ROOT CAUSE of the problem, which has
less to do with learning to be funny, and far more to do with reclaiming
your masculinity and your power. It’s about how to take ACTION with
women, from A to Z, in the way that women deep down WISH you would, but
simply can’t admit because of the anti-masculine crusade.
Michael W, better known as The Dating Wizard, is a dating and
relationship consultant for men, as well as a frequent guest on radio
and television talk shows. Michael has spent over four years studying
the specific male behaviors that trigger attraction in women. His
findings are based on both his real life observations of men who are
successful with women, as well as his research on evolutionary
psychology and its applications to sexual attraction.
To find out all about Michael, his book, and his consultation services,
check out
www.TheDatingWizard.com or call 416 630 9966.
