The first kiss can definitely be tricky, but this is one area I can give you
some quick tips:
- First of all, your number one rule is this: "You Must Already Know If She's
Going To Kiss You BEFORE You Go For The Kiss." (A variation of Sun Tzu.) Chant
that every night before you go to bed. It's important. You see, you never go
into a first kiss situation without knowing in advance that she's going to
return it. It should never be an ATTEMPT, but a definite CLOSE. If she refuses
you a kiss, you probably already knew it long before but didn't admit it to
yourself.
The way to test this is easy: At some point on the "date," if you are aware that
things are going well, and you've been using kino as I describe in the book, you
should lean well into her personal space to test her reaction. There are a
couple ways to do this, but I'll give you the one that's easiest: Get up to go
to the bar or to the bathroom. You make as if to leave, walking behind her, and
then come back to her. You put one hand gently on her shoulder and lean down
within six inches of her ear. Ask her if you can get her something when you
return.
Watch her reaction. If she seems comfortable with the touch and the proximity,
you're in good shape. If not, you need to work on the other attraction
strategies from the e-book some more. Then you go in and test again. If you do
this three times with uneasy reactions from her each time, you should consider
ending the date. She's either got physical trust issues, or you two are simply
NOT hitting it off.
- Make sure you're "kissable." Use some Chapstick or a lip moisturizer that give
your lips a kiss-able look.
- Kiss early if you can. You don't have to wait for the end of the date to come
before you go for the kiss. In a lot of ways, it can be better if you do. If you
can sneak in a short kiss early, you will 1) Show her ten times the confidence
that most men have, 2) establish yourself as different than the rest, 3) Give
her a reason to relax if she thinks that the tense part is over with.
- Make it a quick kiss, always leave her wanting more. Your kiss is short, slow,
and gentle. No tongue or added moisture. When you're done (after YOU cut off the
kiss) you give her a strong look in her eye and make an "mmmmm...." noise.
Last, but most important, if a woman refuses or avoids the kiss at the end of
the first date, she's off the team. Straight to the locker room.
No woman who is truly interested in you would refuse to kiss you. Remember that.
I was out with a gal on Saturday who asked me to walk her to her door, and when
there was a short gap in our conversation she leaned in and kissed ME. Why?
Because of all the attention and tension we had built up over the course of that
night. (Everything I preach in THE DATING BLACK BOOK.)
So get out there and get some, guys...
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Do you know where to touch women to give them the chills and turn them
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It's tempting to wing it. It really is. Some guys think that they'll
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