Don Diebel is President and owner of Gemini Publishing Co., which specializes in books, cassettes, and videos on how to succeed with
women since 1978.
Avoid Second-Guessing Her
You can think faster than you can speak. Therefore, it is tempting to
listen for a few moments and then attempt to guess what point is being led up
to. "You'll never believe what happened this morning," someone tells you
excitedly. "I was driving to work. I looked in my rearview mirror " - "And there
was a cop pulling you over," you interrupt. The speaker's face falls. "Well, no.
I was just going to say that there was a guy riding in the car behind me mooning
me."
It's Insulting
It is an acceptable mental exercise to try to anticipate what will be said, but
to verbalize it (second-guessing) is insulting. Even worse, you may be wrong. It
is also best to refrain from completing sentences when she pauses to construct
her words. You don't have to agree with everything she says in order to be a
good listener. Just give her time to express herself before you add your
opinion.
Listen and Reflect
Whenever you have the urge to disagree, judge or interrupt her, listen
instead and reflect on what you hear. Remember the importance of asking a
question when it is relevant, and avoid interrupting and completing sentences. A
good conversation includes ample give-and-take, but skills are necessary and
invaluable.
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