Don Diebel is President and owner of Gemini Publishing Co., which specializes in books, cassettes, and videos on how to succeed with
women since 1978.
Break-ups in
relationships are never easy and it's worse when you are the one who gets
dumped.
So, what's the best way to get over someone and get back in the dating scene?
Here are some tips:
I highly recommend taking a dating break. Stay away from romance and the dating
scene for awhile. Give yourself time to heal your wounds and keep busy to occupy
your mind instead of brooding or feeling sorry for yourself.
Focus heavily on your career and become a workaholic temporarily. When not
dating heavily, you will have more time to focus on your career. This is a good
way to divert your attention away from focusing on a love that didn't last.
Go on a scavenger hunt throughout your apartment or house and remove anything
that reminds you of your lost love. Throw them away, put them in storage, or
hide them in the attic. This is a good way to bury the past and get on with your
life.
Spend more time with your buddies and renew old friendships. During this
transition time from being a couple to being single and free again is a good
time to bond with friends to take your mind off of your old girlfriend.
Keep physically active - join a health club or local softball team, join a
bowling league, take tennis lessons, take up jogging, etc.
In closing, please don't jump back into the frying pan right away by looking for
love on the rebound. Take a break and let your wounds heal and make a fresh
start when you feel like you're over her and ready to start to date again.
About the author:
Don Diebel is one of the nation's leading experts on dating and relationships,
has been a guest speaker on several TV and radio shows, featured in print interviews, dating consultant,
and has helped thousands of men win at the game of love with his phenomenal best-sellers, "How to Pick Up Women in Discos," "The
Complete Guide to Meeting Women," "100 Places to Take a Date," The Houston Entertainment and Dating
Guide," "How to Pick Up Topless Dancers" and "1001 Best Pick-Up Lines."
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Don Diebel is President and owner of Gemini Publishing Co., which specializes in books, cassettes, and videos on how to succeed with
women since 1978.