Don Diebel is President and owner of Gemini Publishing Co., which specializes in books, cassettes, and videos on how to succeed with
women since 1978.
First dates
are successful dates when you have preparation, planning and fun.
1. Read the newspaper and listen to the news on the day of your date. This will
give you some good topics for conversation.
2. Before going on your date, rehearse telling some funny stories. Single women
are attracted to men who can make them laugh.
3. Act like you are genuinely interested in what she is saying. Even to the
point when you have to fake it. She will be impressed that you're such a good
listener.
4. Don't act too serious. Act carefree and light-hearted and don't give a long
and boring monologue about yourself.
5. You will be judged on how you look and your behavior. So, wear your
best-looking clothes and be immaculately groomed. And be on your very best
behavior!
6. You may not think this is fair, but a lot of single women will judge you by
the way that you tip. Always tip generously, especially on your first date.
7. This will make a very favorable impression on her. If you leave a cheap tip
or even worse, no tip at all, she will judge you as a cheap person. Also, if she
has ever been a waitress, she will really look down on you for tipping cheaply
or not at all. Waiters and waitresses depend heavily on good tips to make a
decent living.
8. Revolve most of your conversation around her interests, hobbies, career,
goals, vacations, etc. Forget about yourself and focus on her.
9. Act as if you've known her all of your life. This will make her feel
comfortable around you. Also, it will make you feel comfortable and help
eliminate any first date nervousness or anxiety on your part.
10. Be sure and bring your business card with you and give it to her at the end
of the date. It will make her feel that she's important to you. Maintain good
eye contact throughout the date and wear a smile on your face. A good smile has
a very seductive effect on single women.
About the author:
Don Diebel is one of the nation's leading experts on dating and relationships,
has been a guest speaker on several TV and radio shows, featured in print interviews, dating consultant,
and has helped thousands of men win at the game of love with his phenomenal best-sellers, "How to Pick Up Women in Discos," "The
Complete Guide to Meeting Women," "100 Places to Take a Date," The Houston Entertainment and Dating
Guide," "How to Pick Up Topless Dancers" and "1001 Best Pick-Up Lines."
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