Don Diebel is President and owner of Gemini Publishing Co., which specializes in books, cassettes, and videos on how to succeed with
women since 1978.
This week: If she ignores
you, move on to the next single woman and you'll find someone who will respond
to your advances.
This week I want to discuss
some misconceived beliefs of shy men when it comes to meeting single women:
If I Ask a Woman to Dance and She Turns Me Down or If I Talk to a Woman and She
Ignores Me, It's Because I'm Not Worthwhile or Good Enough For Her.
This irrational belief causes shy men to fear approaching a woman and produces
low self-esteem when they are rejected. This fear of being rejected and turned
down prevents shy men from making contact with single women.
If you're turned down for a dance, it doesn't mean that you're not worthwhile or
not good enough for her. She just may not feel like dancing at the moment. She
may just be tired. She may not even dance. There can be a number of reasons. So
don't take it personally. However, what to do in a case like this is to ask her,
"Would you like to dance later?" If she says yes, just ask her again later. Even
better, just ask her, "Well, can I join you for some conversation?" In the mean
time just ask other women to dance.
Also, I might add, a lot of guys get turned down to dance, so don't feel that
you're the only man in the world that happens to. It happens to all men, even
real good-looking men.
If you approach a woman and try to start up a conversation and she ignores you,
don't take that personally either. She just may not feel like talking or being
bothered. Perhaps she's tied down to a boyfriend or even married. Also, you just
might not be using the proper social skills. So if she ignores you, move on to
the next single woman and you'll find someone who will respond to your advances.
Don Diebel is one of the nation's leading experts on dating and relationships,
has been a guest speaker on several TV and radio shows, featured in print interviews, dating consultant,
and has helped thousands of men win at the game of love with his phenomenal best-sellers, "How to Pick Up Women in Discos," "The
Complete Guide to Meeting Women," "100 Places to Take a Date," The Houston Entertainment and Dating
Guide," "How to Pick Up Topless Dancers" and "1001 Best Pick-Up Lines."
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Don Diebel is President and owner of Gemini Publishing Co., which specializes in books, cassettes, and videos on how to succeed with
women since 1978.