Don Diebel is President and owner of Gemini Publishing Co., which specializes in books, cassettes, and videos on how to succeed with
women since 1978.
The "Smothering Technique"
In this article let's talk about
what I call the "smothering technique" to turn women off and drive them away
from you.
This is how I describe this technique: After first meeting a girl, you call her
all the time, sometimes twice or more a day at her work and at home. And when
you can't reach her, you get all upset.
You keep thinking to yourself, where in the hell is she? Is she seeing someone
else, is she trying to avoid me, has she lost interest in me, etc. You just keep
worrying and worrying. When you do get in touch with her you ask her, "Where
have you been, I've been trying to get in touch with you!"
And you keep repeating this pattern of calling her all the time to where it
reaches the point where you become a pest. She is totally turned off and needs
her space and all you are doing is driving her further away from you.
Please, guys don't do this! It's only going to backfire when you try to smoother
her. How often should you call? Just call her every other day will be just fine
and don't linger on the phone for hours as if you had nothing better to do with
your life and your whole world revolves around her. Just keep it brief and say
what you have to say.
By not calling so often this will make her think about you. She will be
wondering what you're doing and she might even wonder why you haven't called and
that's good because it gets her to thinking about you.
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Don Diebel is President and owner of Gemini Publishing Co., which specializes in books, cassettes, and videos on how to succeed with
women since 1978.