The fact is that you CAN
change your personal success in any area you want (including dating).
*** Advice Article of the Week ***
I want to talk about
one of my favorite topics:
I want to talk about the fact that Dating isn't a "fair" game, and what to
do about it...
First off, I want to mention that LIFE isn't fair. In case you haven't
noticed, almost NOTHING is fair.
Fairness is an idea that people have created. I think we probably created
the concept to torture ourselves, in fact. Here are a few ways that life
isn't "fair", as the concept relates to women and dating:
1. Some men are taller, and some are shorter. Women tend to prefer taller
men. How unfair.
2. A very small portion of the women that are alive are as perfect and
beautiful as the women in Playboy and other magazines, and therefore it's
impossible for every man to have one (or many) women that are this
beautiful. How unfair.
3. Many men go their entire lives without ever having sex. How unfair.
4. Some men have sex with hundreds or even thousands of women in their
lives. How unfair.
5. Some men know the secrets of creating that magical emotion called
ATTRACTION inside of women, even though they aren't rich, handsome, tall,
etc. and wind up having their choice of beautiful young women. How unfair.
The point I'm trying to make is that LIFE ISN'T FAIR!
Dating isn't fair, either.
Sometimes a woman will respond positively to you, then the next day she'll
act strange. Sometimes a specific technique will work for you, and sometimes
it won't.
Sometimes you'll feel great and confident inside, and sometimes you won't.
Now, most people don't like the idea that life (and dating) aren't fair.
They get upset when things don't go their way, place too much meaning on
things that happen to them and responses they get from women, and generally
act like life should be different.
Of course, this is CRAZY.
The more that I realized this fact... that life just isn't fair... the more
that I realized another PROFOUND truth:
IT'S GREAT NEWS!
If life were "fair", then you wouldn't be able to do anything to change your
personal success. You'd get what everyone else was getting.
But the fact is that you CAN change your personal success in any area you
want (including dating).
And the best part of this good news is that you can not only get better and
better, but you can actually turn the tables around in YOUR FAVOR.
You can improve so much that you are actually at an ADVANTAGE when it comes
to women and dating.
So if the idea that "life isn't fair" is such great news, then why aren't
more people thinking of it this way?
I personally think that most people aren't WILLING to get up off of their
couch, put the remote down, and actually invest the time and effort required
to become GREAT at something.
So I'd like you to do something right now.
Take a moment, and make the decision and commitment to yourself that you're
going to TAKE ACTION in the areas of your life that you want to improve, and
you're going to do what it takes to stay on track until you get the results
that you're looking for.
Dating isn't fair... and that's great news.
Another problem is that a lot of people don't know where to START. They
don't know how to get on the right track, and where to learn things that
actually work.
When I first decided that I had to learn how to meet and attract women for
myself, I spent probably a year or two "wandering around" trying to find out
what worked.
I ran in a lot of circles trying things that sounded like good ideas... but
wound up being B.S.
Then, once I finally figured out some of the ideas, techniques, and skills
it was going to take to really become great at this, it took awhile to
really learn the skills and practice them to the point where I could use
them and have predictable success with them.
Why am I telling you this?
Because I'd like to save you some of the time, effort, expense and hassle
that I put into figuring out all of my secrets... and I'd like to help you
swing the odds in your favor when it comes to women.
I'd like you to take advantage of the fact that I've spent literally
thousands of hours learning as much as I possibly could about how to meet
and date attractive women, and I've spent thousands more organizing this
information and putting it together in a way that you can pick up and use
IMMEDIATELY to get better results with women.
And if you haven't downloaded your copy of my online eBook "Double Your
Dating", then you need to get your ass in gear and do that RIGHT NOW. You
can download it right now and be reading it within a few minutes. Get it
here: http://www.doubleyourdating.com/
- just follow the 'ebook' link and download your copy.
...and read it, learn it, and use it. Talk to you soon, David D.
P.S. As you can probably imagine, I get a TON of email... So if you'd like
to send me a Success Story, Question, or Comment, follow these guidelines: 1) Keep it short and to the point. Two paragraphs max. 2) Tell me what's working for you before you ask your question. I appreciate
all of the "Your stuff is great" and "I don't need to tell you how well your
stuff works" comments, but the fact is that I DO need to hear all of the
specifics... because this helps other guys to see what's working in
different situations. 3) If you have a Success Story, write "Success Story" in the subject line of
the email. I read these first. 4) At the end of the email, give me your initials and tell me where you're
from. 5) Send it to me at: SuccessStories@doubleyourdating.com
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