First of all, get used to attractive women sending you mixed signals. It's
part of life.
One of the reasons why a woman will be "all over you one day but cold the
next" is because during the time she was "all over you", YOU ACTED LIKE A
WUSS.
A lot of guys don't get this.
They get all upset because a girl was friendly one day, but totally acted
different the next.
What often happens is something like this:
You do the right things,
and make her feel ATTRACTION.
She starts acting
affectionate. Maybe you make out.
You start saying "Wow, I
really like you" etc. and act all smitten with her to her face too early on
instead of just leaning back, enjoying, and playing it cool.
She CHANGES HER MIND and
sees you in a different light because you turned into a WUSS right before
her very eyes.
You feel me?
Better way: Keep doing what you know works. Keep leaning back, being
unpredictable, playing hard to get, etc. And don't start acting smitten too
early on!
I always felt like I need to say something
that would "impress" a woman... or act "cool" so she'd like me.
I
went through this for most of my adult life, actually.
I can't say that my techniques will absolutely work for you without
question. You're the one that has to use them...
But I will say that if you get out there and try them, I think you'll find
that they work better than anything else, and that you'll have more success
than you have now. It took me YEARS to really figure out what women respond
to, and I really believe that ANY guy can use the material to attract women.
If you'd like an introduction to my main concepts and techniques, then you
need to start with my eBook, Double Your Dating. It's the foundation for
everything that I teach in these articles, and it's a MUST-read. It's here: http://www.doubleyourdating.com/
- just follow the 'ebook' link and download your copy.
...and read it, learn it, and use it. Talk to you soon, David D.
P.S. As you can probably imagine, I get a TON of email... So if you'd like
to send me a Success Story, Question, or Comment, follow these guidelines: 1) Keep it short and to the point. Two paragraphs max. 2) Tell me what's working for you before you ask your question. I appreciate
all of the "Your stuff is great" and "I don't need to tell you how well your
stuff works" comments, but the fact is that I DO need to hear all of the
specifics... because this helps other guys to see what's working in
different situations. 3) If you have a Success Story, write "Success Story" in the subject line of
the email. I read these first. 4) At the end of the email, give me your initials and tell me where you're
from. 5) Send it to me at: SuccessStories@doubleyourdating.com
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