Want to do when you like a girl?
The best advice here is to smile her way. Not a great bog goofy grin but a
regular welcoming smile. Hopefully she’ll smile back then you can approach
her and start some small-talk conversation.
When to ask for a second date?
After the first date, obviously. But seriously, ask her for a second date in
a call about three days after the first date. Don’t rush things. Keep to the
dating rules and you’ll do fine.
How to know if a girl is interested?
Watch for her body language to be in an accepting position, arms at her side
or on the table, just not crossed, slight smile, talks nervously or a little
more animated (energetic) than usual, pulls at her sleeve, her lip, her
hair. Looks away shyly when she sees you looking at her.
Is she interested?
You could always just ask her “Hey, do you like me?” but for most guys
that’s just too much to know. The fear of finding out that she actually does
not like you is worse than asking her. But that’s 1) not sane; 2) stupid;
and 3) you’ve got to find his out one way or another if you’re ever going to
get a date, or heck, even be able to talk to her!
How to talk dirty?
Ahh, well, ummm… ask your parents. Or better yet, there are some great books
that discuss ‘creating the mood’ that will answer this question better than
I.
Does a ‘friend with benefits’ get a Valentines Day card?
No. Unless you’re attempting to get your ‘friend’ to actually date you. But
hey, you’re already having sex why spend the money on a card? Seriously,
stop the sexual part of the relationship and see if you can start over, as a
real couple. If you can, great, if not… well, at least you know where you
stand. Now go get an HIV test, pronto.
When you’re online dating what should you say in your second email?
"Hi again."
Really, say that. Then talk about whatever subject was brought up in the
first email to you. Add some personal humor stories (you’ll never believe
what happened to me the other day…), some stories about news and events
where you live. No complaining, bitching, no sad stories. You want this
person to like you, right? Don’t show yourself as a whiny complainer. And
always proof-read your emails before you send them. No onne likes to have to
unkderstand what you’re saying through the misspelllihngs.
Things to do on a first date?
Whatever is cheap and fun. Don’t spend a lot of money. Go to the zoo. Go
bowling. That’s right, interactive fun things that you can both participate
equally at. No movies, no dinners. Maybe a dessert somewhere, some window
shopping. No introducing him/her to your parents and definitely no combined
dates with your friends. Think of this first date a something that you can
both do together and enjoy that isn’t a movie or a drunken keg crawl.
